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Understanding sexuality. Navigating its challenges.
Sexuality is personal, and it isn't always straightforward.
From sexual performance and desire to pornography, fantasies and relationships, I provide evidence-informed sexology education and consultations to help people better understand their experiences and explore practical ways forward.
What's on your mind?
My work focuses on six interconnected areas of human sexuality and relationships.
01. Sexual Performance & Confidence
Erection difficulties. Ejaculation concerns. Performance anxiety. Changes in desire and arousal.
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When sex isn't going the way you'd like, it can affect your confidence, enjoyment and relationships.
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Understanding sexual response, performance pressure and the factors influencing arousal can help you make sense of what's happening.
02. Desire, Intimacy & Communication
Different sex drives. Sexual rejection. Loss of intimacy. Initiating sex. Changes after children.
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You can love your partner and still find yourselves wanting different things sexually.
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Understanding desire and learning to communicate openly can help you navigate those differences with greater confidence and respect.
03. Pornography & Sexual Behaviour
Pornography concerns. Masturbation habits. Feeling out of control. Guilt and shame. Relationship tension.
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Pornography and masturbation aren't inherently problematic, but sometimes sexual habits can become a source of distress or conflict.
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Understanding your behaviour, its impact and how it aligns with your values is a good place to start.
04. Sexual Shame & Self-Concept
Body and penis concerns. Sexual inadequacy. Guilt. Masculinity. Sexual expectations.
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The way you see yourself can influence how you experience sex and intimacy.
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Exploring shame, personal beliefs and expectations can help you develop a more informed and accepting understanding of your sexuality.
05. Fantasies, Kinks & Sexual Interests
Sexual fantasies. Kinks and fetishes. Confusing interests. Partner disclosure. Consent and boundaries.
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Not everyone feels comfortable discussing what turns them on.
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Whether you're curious, concerned or unsure how to talk about your interests, these conversations deserve accurate information and a non-judgemental approach.
06. Relationships & Sexual Agreements
Monogamy. Open relationships. Swinging. Hotwifing. Cuckolding. Jealousy. Boundaries. Sexual agreements.
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Relationships don't all follow the same structure, and expectations around sex and intimacy can change.
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Whether you're exploring new experiences, navigating jealousy or renegotiating boundaries, understanding your desires and communicating openly can help you make informed, mutually agreed decisions.
Understanding is a good place to start.
You don't need to know which area your concern falls under before getting in touch. My consultations provide an opportunity to discuss what's happening, ask questions, explore relevant sexological knowledge and consider appropriate next steps.
For Men.
$180 | 60 minutes Online
Private, individual consultations focused on sexuality, sexual confidence and relationships.
For Couples.
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