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You can love each other and still struggle with sex.
Differences in desire, intimacy and sexual expectations can create tension, even in otherwise happy relationships.
Private, evidence-informed sexology consultations to help couples better understand their sexual relationship, communicate more openly and explore practical ways forward.
What's happening between you?
Every couple's sexual relationship is different, and things don't always go the way either person would like.
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Some common concerns include:
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Different sex drives
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Initiating sex and feeling rejected
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Feeling pressured or obligated to have sex
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Loss of intimacy and sexual connection
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Sex becoming routine or predictable
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Changes in intimacy after having children
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Difficulty talking about sex
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Sexual frustration and resentment
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Pornography causing relationship tension
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Different fantasies, kinks or sexual interests
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Exploring open relationships or non-monogamy
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Jealousy, boundaries and broken agreements
You don't have to agree on everything to begin understanding each other better.
A conversation that includes both of you.
When sex becomes a source of frustration, it can be difficult to talk about without someone feeling criticised, rejected or misunderstood.
Couples consultations provide an opportunity to step away from those familiar conversations and look at what's happening with greater understanding.
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My role isn't to take sides, decide how often you should be having sex or tell you what your relationship should look like.
It's to help you better understand your sexual relationship, explore the differences between you and develop the knowledge and communication skills to navigate them.
Understanding each other. Finding a way forward.
Couples Sexology Consultation
$210 | 75 minutes | Online
Before we meet.
You'll each receive information about the consultation and complete a confidential intake and suitability process, including individual consent and safety screening.
During your consultation.
We'll explore what's brought you here, understand each person's perspective and discuss the factors affecting your sexual relationship.
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I'll provide relevant sexological education and practical guidance to support informed conversations about intimacy, desire and expectations.
Moving forward.
We'll consider what you've learned, any practical next steps and whether further consultation or support from another professional would be appropriate.
There's no predetermined number of appointments.
Hi, I'm Jordan.
I'm a Perth-based sexologist and relationships and sexuality educator, with a particular interest in sexual wellbeing and intimate relationships.
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I know that even couples who communicate well in other parts of life can find talking about sex surprisingly difficult.
My approach is straightforward, evidence-informed and without judgement.
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I believe both people deserve to feel heard, understood and respected, regardless of their differences in desire, sexual interests or expectations.
A few things you might be wondering.
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Will you take sides?
No. My role is to understand both perspectives, not determine who's right or wrong.
The aim is to help you develop a clearer understanding of your sexual relationship and explore constructive ways forward.
What if one of us is less comfortable talking about sex?
That's quite common. You don't need to arrive with the same level of confidence or know exactly what to say.
Both people should feel able to participate at their own pace. Consultations are voluntary, and neither person should feel pressured to attend.
Is this couples therapy?
I provide sexology consultations focused on sexuality education, communication and practical guidance.
This is different from couples psychotherapy or psychological treatment. Where concerns require specialist relationship therapy, mental-health care or other support, I'll discuss appropriate referral options.
Will our conversations be confidential?
Your privacy is taken seriously. Before commencing, we'll discuss confidentiality, its limits and how information shared individually and jointly will be handled.
Both partners must provide informed consent to participate.
How many consultations will we need?
There's no fixed number.
Some couples may find one consultation useful, while others may benefit from further conversations. We'll discuss what's appropriate for your circumstances.